Things that are happy:
1) I solved my pain problems temporarily* by (you guessed it) bleeding. I never thought I'd choose having a horrible period over anything but a few days of misery was well worth it. I can't tell you how much better I feel. Unfortunately (uh, oh, more woe is me) I got a nasty cold on the same day as the bleeding which was not fun but getting both things out of the way at the same time was the way to go I suppose because when I finally recovered from both things I felt super high and happy. I've kind of gone overboard on the smiling and exercising and being pleasant!
*I need to talk to my GYN a bit more but I see a Mirena IUD in my future...
2) I had a horny kitty. Have I mentioned our latest foster, Vespa? She was in heat for about 5 days. Wow. I felt so bad for her. If you've never seen a cat in heat you are a lucky person. I took her in to be spayed yesterday and now she's keeping her nether regions in their proper location instead of pointed in the direction of any breathing thing. She's cute, don't you think?3) A friend and I hosted a baby shower last weekend and it was really enjoyable and turned out very well, I think! Maybe I can actually do these girly things after all. I'm not claiming to be a Martha Stewart type or anything (because she'd certainly not drink wine and more wine and more wine while hosting) but I think I could do this again without breaking a sweat. (Now I just need to get over my fear of hosting dinner parties.)
4) Zoe is exercising! She needs 225 hours of "P.E." before graduation and because her high school doesn't offer it she has to do it on her own. We've been pushing it all year and finally she's found something that she enjoys. Yoga.** Her goal is to be more flexible (she's not bendy like her mom) so this is a good one. She's going to add a few other things to her list soon (I hope) like rock climbing and weight training (after all she wants to fit into adult jeans so gaining a little muscle in the behind can't hurt).
I'm really happy with Zoe's attitude lately. I think a lot of it is due to Robert interacting more with her; helping her organize her school schedule and chatting with her every day while they go over things. He tends to be more pleasant than me and often, in the past, the majority of interacting he had with teen Zoe was after I'd had a fight with her and he'd come to intervene. Those interactions were rarely pleasant.
**Strictly at home yoga but I'd love for us to eventually take a class together.
5) Sid has been invited to compete in review writing contests at the Journalism Education Association's state and national conventions. The only problem is getting him to actually go the competitions. He has many excuses including:
a) "My time is precious!"
b) "The rules state that my review has to be 350 words or less but all my reviews up to this point have been 900 words!"
c) "I don't know AP style rules!"
d) "I'm not taking journalism next year so who cares?"
He has time. He can condense. He knows AP style. College admissions (and I) care.
There are other reasons he doesn't want to go but hasn't mentioned them. I'm sure one reason is he's not super social and hanging out with 5 other teenagers for 3 days, attending dances, meet and greets and dinners ranks at the bottom of his "fun things to do" list.
The state competition (which is just over a week away) is a day long and near us so I can't think of a reason why he shouldn't give it a shot and it doesn't entail anything major on the social scale. The national competition is also conveniently located in Portland and with some fund raising and grouping of 3 boys to a room with a single queen bed (heh, heheheh) it'll only cost him $200 to go and it's not until mid-April. He will miss 2 days of school but I think participating in the seminars, the social events and just being away from us will be really good for him. As I always say (and god, I never thought I'd say these things) he'll thank me one day.
6) I hate to be bragging on Sid but I'm very impressed with all the mail he's been getting from very selective universities and colleges. I wish I had half his brains. He's picked his top 5 (all located in urban areas, mainly NYC) so now the fun part is to figure out how to get a scholarship. I'm sure I've mentioned that there is no college fund, right. Heheheheh. Heh. Hm.
We're looking at the various college admission requirements and he's on track academically. He's going to be busy his junior year:
AP language arts, AP US history, AP Spanish, pre-calculus honors, chemistry, swimming and photography. No room for journalism but he can get back into that senior year if he wants.
Now he just needs to keep up the good grades, test well, and work on his wow factor.
p.s. Just before publishing I found out that Sid talked with his journalism teacher about the conventions and will be attending both...and the bad attitude is gone. I think he figured that if his peers nominated him to go and very few of the newspaper staff were nominated then maybe it's worth going and trying to win something. Wow factor.














